May 31

haboti, Uncategorized

Hey blazers, hope all is well with everyone

The piece below I recently just wrote it but has been relating to my situation for a while ♥️.

The lost warrior shapes us to love.

How can he not?

Have you seen his honest tearful eyes?

Can you not hear pain from his laughs?

His uncertain journey shouldn’t bring sorrow

Smash him down, he colors the ground

Throw him to sea, he will rise to disagree

For he is love, him we love.

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Men v/s relationships


Today I want to address an issue that has brought worry upon my future, why men rush relationships. Why is it that they are in a hurry for relationships as long as it’s a girl without taking into account the girl’s background, religion, lifestyle, ethnicity, job…etc? As a woman, I can tell you that almost every girl/woman out there understands that her love, support system and lifestyle has to change depending on her husband’s lifestyle, job, and family traditions.

Marrying a diplomat for example, a girl knows to change how she converses in public, she knows most of the time he will be buried in work, his availability won’t be frequent at home, she knows rumors will be spread and so on. Then why don’t men understand marrying a working girl is also different? That marrying an accountant is not the same as an engineer, or a staying at home girl? How do men expect a full time housewife to act like those perfect housewives in advertisement, all smiles, prepares food, cleans, and always dressed up without wiping off the smile? Are we ornaments? A rare flower to be a decoration in someone’s house, well even a flower dies if you forget to cherish it.

Back to working wives, men need to take into consideration that work is still work, I will have late nights as you, I will have bad days as you, and I don’t want to mess up my presentation too! So when you expect us to be understanding of your situation, we do too. We want someone who knows how to love different. Am not saying the amount or quality of love should vary, just let it be different, the jokes, gestures, compliments. You shouldn’t expect your same way of loving to work on a photographer, a doctor, or a housewife.

This goes to both parties involved, equal understanding , commitment, patience, support, care….and the list goes on.

What We’re Watching: Elementary

Miss Nasra, What We're

As someone who is drawn to intellectual conversations, and debates I can say SHERLOCK is my favorite show. I’ve completed the entire seasons of Sherlock long ago and have been waiting anxiously for a new season for a year now. I was in desperate need of a fix, until last month when a classmate suggested ELEMENTARY! Was I relieved? Of course yes, I get 6 seasons to watch the detective in action, with an interesting twist that this Sherlock is set in New York city…….(”dramatic music in the background”)

Hair care 💗


If you love using natural remedies to glow up your face, hair or just cure any small illness like flu then this is something you can relate. I am someone who has so much love for her short curls, a bit too much you could say, reason being I am always reading hair care articles, trying all kitchen ingredients on my hair until I find the right one for my hair type. This is because I have used a lot of man-made products and I realized few of them even work, except shampoos those always work!

Everything from spices, eggs, oils and fruits, I leave nothing to spare, recently I also found out black pepper has it benefits to the hair, guess who will be seasoning her hair? ……..

The secret is experimentation and knowing what you want. Firstly not everything can give you all results, if you want growth there are specifics for that. So before you start searching on google and watching DYI’s what do you want for your hair? Dandruff free, shine, moisture, softness, growth. After this step, look up different ways to use the ingredients you want, for example:

• How long do you want to use the hair mask for, 30 minutes, an hour or overnight? Don’t over use as it can damage or dry the hair

• Do you want a hair rinsing type of preparation or one you just leave in a shower-cup?

• What ingredients are you ready to use, can you stand the smell for some e.g egg, mayonnaise etc.

• The need to detangle your hair while applying the ingredients, some kitchen material requires hair to be damp before application, so search thoroughly.

• Also know the amount needed for your hair, if you have long or curls then definitely you need more so when measuring just be extra. Measurements are important, don’t just mix.

• Lastly, don’t forget to search if the recipe you applied should be post or pre shampoo!

Ok, now don’t rush this is no magic portion, remember it takes time for you to see the results you were expecting or any progress at all, so consistency and routine should be your habits of using natural remedies on your head. Some remedies require daily usage; others weekly while some just monthly, so keep up!

One more thing to brush through, OVER BRUSHING! Yes it’s a thing. Don’t overdo it. Also here are some basics to start with: don’t brush wet hair, wrap wet hair in a towel not to lose the moisture, use a proper brush, force doesn’t work well with hair, wash hair as per your hair needs = oily hair, stinky hair, dusty hair, don’t do it everyday!

That is all I have to share, any questions or suggestions please let me know.

PS: hair length doesn’t equal beauty. Strength , shine and healthy hair equals beauty